Bondage what is it?
Incorporating practices that even encourage art into your sexual lifestyle is an idea that is entirely possible and in fact already exists! Bondage or BDSM has reached the sexual life of many couples to take them out of the routine and immerse them in a paradise of infinite sensations.




What is Bondage?



It is an erotic practice that consists of immobilizing through different tools designed explicitly for it and that is accompanied by a set of activities such as identifying roles in the sexual encounter that go from submissive to dominant, each one fulfilling a fundamental task so that this practice turns out to be much more pleasant and in itself to provide benefits to the couple's relationship, since this one is even capable of working on the trust they have in each other.

You may ask yourself, where does the word Bondage come from? Well, the word has its origin in France and means slavery, however, this does not mean that the practice is of French origin, as it has existed in a less formal since man inhabits the earth, it is from various types of literature as Fifty Shades of Grey that takes a high profile and becomes known in a much wider and consequently empathetic way by those who love to innovate in their intimacy.


 

Important!


Getting started in the Bondage or BDSM practices is not as easy as just making the decision, but it's not too difficult either, there are just certain things you need to take into account

- Talk about it: communication is one of the most important pieces in Bondage, because as we mentioned before, it is a practice full of agreements, so clarifying with our partner what we want and how far we are willing to go during this practice, will be the point that will differentiate a totally unpleasant experience that you will not repeat or one in which you will be involved in a sensation of pleasure never explored before.

- Trust: working on the trust you have with yourself and with your partner is also fundamental, since, in this practice, whatever role you choose, you give your partner a part of you that perhaps you have never released before or in some cases you may not even be sure that, within you, there is a whole adventurer willing to experience wonderful sensations.

- Choose a role for you: as we mentioned in some occasions before, in the Bondage or BDSM practices each member of the relationship chooses a role, that is, chooses to be tied or to be the one who ties, establishing this clearly is also key to guarantee a better experience.

- Don't rush: if you are just starting this practice it is good not to rush to explore all your limits the first time, save some for later on a journey of exploration. You can also implement what in the BDSM is known as security code, a phrase or word that tells the other person when to stop or when something is no longer pleasant and begins to generate discomfort, this will be the key and starting point to frame your experience in pleasure or also in pleasure.


Accessories used in Bondage


In this practice you are not alone at all, since the sex toy industry, thinking of those passionate about innovation and exciting, non-routine experiences, has devised a series of erotic accessories designed especially for those who wish to enter the Bondage world, which in themselves are endowed with a wide variety, each one containing a fascinating purpose, let's meet them!

- Whips and floggers: perfect for spanking, which in Bondage means to whip, this can be done by hand or with some object designed for it, as in this case whips, floggers and whips.

- Masks: for those submissive lovers of mystery, masks and masks are an excellent ally, since they wrap them up in an atmosphere charged with uncertainty and increase the intensity of the sensations to be experienced. If you are one of them, dare to try a mask or a mask and live the experience.

- Bondage gags: with the purpose of avoiding that your partner, in his role of submissive talks or expresses some type of sound, these gags give to your experience in the Bondage a little more eroticism, turning this way into one of the most indispensable accessories in the same one.

- Erotic handcuffs: another indispensable ally in Bondage, since they give you, as a dominant a little more control over your partner and, if on the other hand you are in the pole of submission, these will also give your role an impressive plus, would you use them?

- Bondage Necklaces: Necklaces have always been a symbol of dominance in any culture, that is why in BDSM they also take on an extremely important presence, with them, as a dominant you can show your submissive who is in control right now and as a submissive you can demonstrate your fidelity and devotion to your role.

- Bondage clothing and lingerie: what you wear always adds to your style and speaks volumes about your personality, at the same time, you can use a wardrobe to give a message to those who look at you. In Bondage, this is always the case, and that's why there are so many impressive designs with which you can leave your lover dreaming of the day when she will have you again, whatever role they assume in the relationship.



Now that you know what Bondage or BDSM is and what it brings to your sex life and your relationship, do you dare to try it? It's never too late to try something new and your time has come.

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